How Does A Man Love?

This is some sort of a personal question that has been bothering me recently. I believe most people don't know the answer be it women or even men themselves. And I am asking this on behalf of all women in the world. Perhaps this is also your question to your crush, boyfriend or husband since day one. Women are born to be affectionate and emotional beings. We do things according to our hearts and we love someone with our hearts. We are willing to do a lot of things for the man we love. For instance, wash his clothes, send him to work, sew him a sweater, buy him gifts, sms him all the time, think of him wherever we go, whatever we do, you name it! And sometimes we do it openly sometimes discreetly. Our objective is just very simple - that is to shower our love upon him. Isn't that something very straight forward and pure love? So the question again is... How does a man love? Through his heart or his brain?

A man, sometimes he sweet talk with you, sometimes he hugs you and he seems like wanting to know you better but does that really mean he is fond of you? He seems appreciate the things you have done for him but on the other hand he never takes a single move to keep in touch with you or care for you especially when you are not around him... or worse is when you are far apart from him. I wonder if he is really not interested or is he acting not according to his heart or will but according to his rationality. Everything they do, they judge the consequences, the pros and cons and much more other factors. First of all, God created Adam and then Eve to become Adam's partner @ helper. Is it because Eve has sinned first by eating the apple that is why women have to bear all the emotional sufferings? But when I think at a different angle, is Eve created as a creature whom is much more complicated than Adam? A creature with deep emotions and soft heart? This also explains why she is easily influenced by Satan...

Worse thing is by just a small little move which man considers as nothing would make our minds cramp up. I mean a small move as in when he sweet talks or act slightly more affectionate to you. It creates a lot of imagination in our minds like... "Is he interested in me?", "Oh God I'm so happy that he actually likes me too!" etc. Somehow this gives us hope. On the contrary, when a man doesn't care much about you or did not even send u a single sms, the negative imaginations start to give us scratches in the heart. We would think "So he is actually not interested in me", "Why is he acting so differently from the other day?", "Is he interested or is he just too busy to say Hi to me?" And this crashes our hope. What a torture?!!! It's an up and down emotion and it is definitely not an easy feeling to bear. I doubt if men can act more responsibly when it comes to relationship? What are they thinking??? Oh... give us a break!

For our part, I couldn't say that it is an unconditional love because while we are willing to sacrifice for our loved ones, we do expect or at least HOPE to get back something in return. But all we ask is just a response. Whether it is good or bad, we need an answer that can reduce our sufferings. Perhaps we are being impatient or are men being too patient? I believe God created men and women to live harmoniously together. So it is about give and take and please just be fair. Anyway, with God who loves us unconditionally, I believe He will lead us to the answer... O Lord I pray for your support and with You, we will stand strong! AMEN.